God has created us all so that trouble among us cannot be removed without Him.  One man thinks a thought.  Now he is hard pressed to convey that thought to others.  His thinking was in experience, Scriptural truth, “pictures”, and the limits of man’s understanding.  Now he must use what is in his control to convey what he has understood.

He begins with the words he knows to speak his thought to another.  But the one who is listening is using all he knows to hear.  Even while God is among the two, the willingness to receive finds a limit.  What shall come of the conversation?

Often, when subjects of difficulty are discussed, we need a time of reflection before we answer.  We need humility (considering ourselves as if less than the other) to intervene.  We need compassion to destroy division.  We need to take the time to learn what God is saying.

“I hear what you said.  I assume you mean only what is best for all.  Please allow me time to consider what you said before I respond.”  For the sake of the Holy Son of God, be patient with one another!  If, in your speaking, the other does not understand, ignore frustration.  WAIT!

Pray as you receive.  A few short words are all that are necessary; “Father, please help me understand.”  Then listen without pride or expectation.  Perhaps the other is saying nothing.  Perhaps the other is saying all.  Regardless, your brother is trying to speak what is true.  Listen with the heart of a loving servant.   Speak with the heart of a loving servant.

If he is saying nothing, what is that to you?  He spoke to you because he needs to love and be loved.   If he is saying all, what is that then to the both of you?  Perhaps Christ has determined to give you both direction.

Regardless, there will be trouble among us for the sake of our limitations.  Recognize that.  Accept that.  Have mercy and refrain from beginning trouble.